Farewell, Lynde Francis
Lynde Francis Zimbabwean AIDS activist and founder of The Centre, died yesterday from AIDS-related complications.
I had the privilege of interviewing Lynde in 2007, and found her to be one of the most stimulating, thought provoking, passionate and committed people I have ever met.
Keith Goddard, director of Gays and Lesbians of Zimbabwe (GALZ) shared some of his memories of Lynde:
I learnt with deep sadness yesterday that Lynde Francis had died that morning. It was almost unbelievable because Lynde was always a great fighter. She had lived with HIV for decades and pulled through a serious illness, probably caused by a spider bite, which left her unconscious for days.
I first met Lynde as a dynamic member of the Gays and Lesbians of Zimbabwe (GALZ). She didn’t fit into any conventional category or define herself as gay, lesbian or bisexual. She used to say she was polysexual and then laugh.
In the early 1990s GALZ had no offices and Lynde’s home was open house for many of our meetings and even interviews with journalists.
Lynde was the first member to receive sponsorship through GALZ to start counselling training with CONNECT and her home phone was the hotline for the GALZ Counselling Services. In 1995, Lynde’s dining room became the interim offices for GALZ until we moved to our present address.
She was also with us at the 1995 Book Fair which had as its theme that year ‘Human Rights and Justice’. Despite the title, government illegally banned GALZ from participating and the President, on opening the Fair, issued the first in a series of vitriolic attacks on gays. Despite the ban, we were there and I can remember standing next to Lynde and others day after day at an empty stand talking to members of the public who had come to stare at and mock the homosexuals. At the end we all went back to her house for a glass of white wine exhilarated by our success of having put gay and lesbian rights firmly on the national agenda in Zimbabwe. I remember Lynde describing it as a coup.
But Lynde’s association with GALZ caused her difficulties when it came to setting up and finding funding for The Centre. Government’s disapproval of GALZ made many AIDS Service Organisations nervous about being linked to an organisation which might incur the wrath of government. But, in true style, Lynde refused either to deny her links with GALZ or to give up the struggle to realise her dream of setting up The Centre.
She won through and in 1998 even spoke up at a meeting of ZNNP+ in support of the application for membership by GALZ. It was largely through Lynde’s efforts that GALZ became fully accepted and respected as a member of the AIDS movement in Zimbabwe.
Lynde gave hope to thousands of people living with HIV especially at a time when ARVs were unaffordable to most. She always took on too much and always placed herself second. She was a wonderful mother to us all and we will miss her dearly.
According to the Zimbabwe Human Rights NGO Forum, there will be a viewing for Lynde at the Doves Chapel, 157 Harare Street on Thursday 2 April from 11:30am – 1.00pm. All those who would like to pay their last respect to Lynde are welcome to come and part take in this service. Her body will be taken to Mutare for cremation. On Monday 6 April from 11:30 – 1.00 there will also be a Memorial Service at Celebration Centre in Harare to celebrate her life. Thereafter all are welcome at The Centre, 24 Van Praagh Avenue, Milton Park from 2.00pm-5pm.
If you knew Lynde and would like to share your memories of this amazing woman, please leave your comments here.
Thursday, April 2nd 2009 at 10:29 pm
I had the pleasure of meeting Lynde when she was in Toronto in 2006. I found her to be quite a remarkable activist with thought provoking ideas! We kept in contact, and facilited the shipment of donated medication from Florida to Zimbabwe, despite the long delay with Zimbabwe customs.She was always willing to advise me on certain issues pertaining my personal life. Today, I feel so deprived, without even saying my last goodbye. Thank you SO much Lynde, you will be forever loved. R.I.P.
Friday, April 3rd 2009 at 1:58 am
My deepest condolences to the family and extended ‘family’ of Lynde. I met Lynde at the World AIDS 2006 event in Toronto. I was drawn to her like a moth to fire and we forged a friendship across the globe: I in Toronto, she in Harare. Lynde regailed me with many stories; especially about her two cats who would ‘christen’ her suitcases every time she went to pack for a trip, which she saw as being helpful in getting her through Customs at the airports, quickly! Naughty puddy tats!!! But, she loved them. Just as people loved her! I only met Lynde for two days at the AIDS event, but, we kept in contact since then. Her strength, courage and charisma were so evident as I listened to her speak on forums and at lectures at World AIDS 2006. I am connected with Dr. Robert Keller, MD, FACC, HIV/AIDS from Florida, USA and was able to bring Lynde and he together so that he could help The Centre with a shipment of vitamins and minerals, especially formulated for HIV/AIDS. It took nearly 6 months for poor Lynde to get it out of the Postal System, but, finally we got word that it had arrived…the wheels turn slowly, but they do turn, as Dr. Keller said. If you wish to see his work please go to http://www.phoenixbiosciences.org I think you will be impressed. I feel very gifted to have had the honor to have met Lynde. She made a marked impression on me, a woman who is now a senior living here in the land of plenty! A mutual friend Takunda Tumelo from Zim but now living in Toronto, just called me to inform me about our dear Lynde’s passing. Salute Lynde, the Pearly Gates surely swung wide when you knocked! You will not be forgotten! And, we will meet again, my Zimbabwean friend! That I know!!! God be with your family…your grandchildren, your friends and your work, now left for others to carry forward. I would like to keep in touch with someone at The Centre….please e-mail me at jacki.otoole@gmail.com I am interested and I do care!
Jacki Walter O’Toole, 7230 Darcel Ave., Apt. 332, Mississauga, Ontario, Canada, 905-461-9801
Saturday, April 4th 2009 at 3:35 pm
To those who really do care and want to do something rather than talk about it help me achieve her dream. It frustrated her that people were honored in their death rather than helped in their lifetime – to late for her but not for others. She believed in a holistic approach to positive living in all its meanings. She so desperately wanted a clinic to be finished at the centre where people from around the world in traditional medicine, herbalism, naturopathy and so much more that I have not had time to learn the terminology for get together. Share, learn, experience what you can do. Make it happen with the supply of vital medicines, herbal treatments, expertise and so much more. If we share what we have to give we can do so much more than doggedly staying on our own path believing it to be the only one – didnt she at least teach us that.
Her daughter